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You may have seen it written in the papers that "divorce is too easy". At WBW we know that is never the case, any divorce or separation, whether something which has been decided for you or something that you need to do, is a time of conflict and distress.

There are many questions for which you need answers and many worries about how to manage both the practicalities of the separation and how you manage your future.

At WBW we have a number of experienced practitioners, many who are accredited specialists who can assist you with all of these issues, both legal and practical, by explaining the process and discussing with you the issues and concerns which you have.

They can provide practical and legal advice about how to address and resolve those, discuss and consider with you how you would like to resolve those issues, whether through a Court process or an alternative and assist you to deal with matters in a way that you believe is best for you and your family.

Frequently Asked Questions

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How long will it take? »

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A. The average time to complete an undefended divorce is about 6 months. There will be cases which are very straightforward and are processed more quickly by the court. However, some cases can take longer than 6 months – common reasons for delay are difficulties with the arrangements for any children of the family, financial requirements which mean that the divorce cannot be completed until a financial settlement is reached or where the Respondent to the proceedings avoids dealing with the divorce papers which means that there is delay, and extra costs, in having that person served with the papers.

Under the current system there is a requirement that the Petitioner takes every step that can reasonably be taken to draw the Respondent's attention to the fact that a petition for divorce has been filed.

In addition to the above there are also inbuilt timings that have to be considered – for example the Respondent has 7 days to respond to the petition once it is received and there is a statutory period of 6 weeks and one day from the pronouncement of the Conditional Order (formerly Decree Nisi) before the Petitioner is able to apply for the Final Order (formerly Decree Absolute). If the Petitioner does not apply for the Final Order then the Respondent is not permitted to do so for a further three months from the date at which the Petitioner could have first applied.

As can be seen from the above, if you have plans to remarry once divorced DO NOT fix the date until you have a clear idea as to when your divorce will be completed.

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Do I have to go to Court? »

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You may go to the Court office to issue the petition and statement of arrangements for children (see answer C below) at the outset of the case and you may go to the court office to process documents during the case but you should not have to appear in court in front of a judge.  An undefended divorce is a "paper exercise". 

The court processes the divorce documents and sends out the  paperwork to you.  You may be required to attend court if there is an dispute about who is going to pay for the divorce or if the judge has a query about the petition and requests that you attend. This is an unusual situation and most people never go into a court room about their divorce although they may go to court about concerns and disagreements over the care of children or money but these are separate proceedings from the divorce itself.

Please note that the procedure is private.  The only people who will see the contents of the petition and other documents will be the solicitors (if involved), the court clerk and the judge.

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What is the Process? »

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This is the very basic outline of the procedure:

  1. The petition and statement of arrangements ("SOA") for any relevant children of the family are completed and signed by the Petitioner or a solicitor instructed by the Petitioner and with the original marriage certificate and Court fee are filed with the court. The court then issues the papers and gives the Petitioner a reference number.
  2. The Court then serves the Respondent by post with a copy of the petition and SOA together with an acknowledgement form. Please note that the Petitioner is not permitted to personally serve the Respondent with the papers. When received the Respondent should consider seeking legal advice.
  3. The Respondent should complete the acknowledgement form and return this to the court. The purpose of the form is to ensure that court is aware that the Respondent knows about the proceedings.
  4. The court will send the Petitioner a copy of the acknowledgment form and the Petitioner is then required to complete a sworn statement (affidavit) confirming that the contents of the petition are true and that the signature on the acknowledgement is that of their husband or wife (unless signed by a solicitor in their place). The Petitioner then files the sworn statement together with an application for a Conditional Order with the court.
  5. The Judge will then consider the paperwork that has been filed and if he/she is satisfied that the petition and other documents are in order will give a date for the pronouncement of the Conditional Order. The court notifies the Petitioner and Respondent and there is no need to attend court unless there is a dispute as to who is paying the costs of the petition.
  6. A Conditional Order is made by the court on the date given and confirmation is sent by post to the Petitioner and Respondent. The Petitioner can then apply for the Final Order six weeks and one day after the date of the Conditional Order. This is again a paper application and the Petitioner does not need to attend court. The judge will make the Final Order and again the documents will be sent out by post to the Petitioner and Respondent.
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Will my spouse pay my costs? »

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The Petitioner can apply to the court for an order that the Respondent to the divorce pays the costs. This includes the court fees and the cost of preparation of the petition and the subsequent work that has to be done if a solicitor is instructed.

However, the "normal" situation is that the parties agree to share the costs – often the court fees are shared on a 50/50 basis and there is an agreement that the Respondent will contribute towards the Petitioner's costs of preparation.

If an agreement cannot be reached then both parties may be required to attend court at the time when the Conditional Order is considered by the judge so that the judge can also consider who is to pay the costs of the proceedings. This in itself can add to costs so it is advisable to reach an agreement if possible.

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